March 2010 Newsletter: Typhoid Merry

TYPHOID MERRY

Now just stay with me a minute, this is a good thing – thus the oh so clever play on words. Given the power of contagion with germs, rumors, and fear, why not use it for the good stuff?
The National Academy of Sciences recently reported “the first laboratory evidence that cooperative behavior is contagious and that it spreads from person to person to person. When people benefit from kindness they ‘pay it forward” by helping others who were not originally involved, and this creates a cascade of cooperation.”
There, see, just when we thought there was no hope for us humans, there we go being nice to each other.  And not because someone told us to but because it’s a natural response.

contagion

While you still want to have fresh breath when you go out to be contagious, you have more power than you may have realized.  Has it ever happened to you – a stranger does something nice like hold the door open for you, let you in front of them in traffic, or perhaps just smile at you when you walk by them?  And then what happens?  You feel so good you can’t help yourself from doing something nice for the next person you encounter.  And then they do the same thing.  And then and then.  Who knows how many more get infected by this joy epidemic!
The key here is that you must make yourself available to receive those kind acts, or they just go to waste.  Forget what your mother said, expose yourself as often as possible!  Then pass it on from that sense of fullness and connection.  It’s one of the most enlivening actions you can take. Feel free to just spiral right out of control.

spiral

PRACTCE OF THE MONTH

Remember the days of Random Acts of Kindness when we got to sneak around and do good things for others?  Well, let’s bring it back.
Find a way everyday to practice a little Necessary Mischief:  trade the mundane for the sublime.  Sneeze joy, fun, laughter, and love all over those around you.  And you don’t even have to admit that it makes you feel good too.
That’s the great thing about being contagious, you can impact others without reducing your share.  Typhoid Merry would be so proud.

hand circle

WHILE YOU’RE AT IT,
DO SOMETHING GREAT FOR YOURSELF

Join the next Embodied Abundance tele-course which begins in just a couple weeks – March 31st  (and is the last one until fall).  It’s all about living in flow and could also be titled Embodied Ease, Embodied Happiness, Embodied Effectiveness, Embodied Wholeness, Embodied Confidence, Embodied Satisfaction.

You get the idea. Sign up by this Friday, the 19th, and get the discount.  Exactly how much is having a life that works worth to you?

For women who are ready to deeply nourish their soul so they are revitalized with a greater sense of ease and purpose, join me for the Women’s Retreat to the Sacred Isle of Iona in Scotland this May. Just 3 spaces left.  Give yourself this powerful gift.

2-minute AUDIO RECESS

CLICK to listen

TO PONDER AND AMUSE

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. “
~
Mark Twain

Enjoy this 2 minute video
that demonstrates grand innovation and fun in playing the classics.

The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves.”
~ Carl Jung

“To the dull mind all nature is leaden. To the illumined mind the whole world burns and sparkles with light.”
~
Emerson

Written and edited by Victoria Castle. © 2010 all rights reserved. If this newsletter was forwarded to you, make sure you receive your monthly copy by signing up directly.  It only takes a moment.  We never share our mailing list with anyone.

CHEERFUL DISCLAIMER:  Participating in Necessary Mischief has been known to induce greater ease, connection, and effectiveness – even joy!  Don’t say you weren’t warned.

Necessary Mischief February Newsletter 2010

WHY RECESS MATTERS
School kids do it, Congress does it, even plants during winter snows do it.  (If you know the tune, please sing along.)  Fact is, taking recess is an occurrence in both the natural and the human-made world.  It is us adult bi-ped’s who are not very reliable for knowing when to take one.
Every week I send out an Audio Recess for the sake of you taking a break right in the midst of all the demands in your life.  I trust you’ve figured out how to listen to it and still look terribly busy.  Because as we all know… if we’re busy, we’re productive.
Oh contraire!  If we’re chronically busy, it’s likely we are operating not at peak performance but more at “numb speed”.  That’s my term for “head down, pushing through, and taking self way too seriously”.  I’m hoping it will find its way into the general lexicon.
Who has time for recess!  Atheletes, artists, musicians, builders, writers, leaders, cooks, teachers, physicians, coaches, farmers, creators – they all know the role of taking a break, giving something time to come to form, letting things rest, getting perspective, clearing their heads or resting their bodies.
We’re hyped up and melting down.  The source of most disease is stress (yep, there’s plenty of science to support that).  So the game is not go faster and manage your time better – by cramming more in,  but to manage your energy.
Taking a recess (even a 2-minute one) gives us a chance to hit the reset button – interrupt the overdrive and downshift into the best gear for the grade we’re traveling on.
Albert Einstein, when working on solving a problem, would take a break and go play the piano.  He was known to often exclaim “I found it” while at the keyboard – away from working the problem.
When we take a break, we are releasing ourselves from the limits of our habitual thinking and seeing, and plugging in to the All-ness of the Is-ness of the Now-ness of the Whole-ness a.k.a. a greater intelligence than just us.  And we can still take all the credit.
Since your second grade teacher isn’t around to announce Recess, it’s up to you.  What power you have.
The highest performing atheletes (the Winter Olympics are happening right now in Vancouver, BC) are masters at tuning into themselves before their capacity diminishes and restoring themselves so they can perform at their best.  Recess is a part of their greatness.  Ours too.
Listen to the Audio Recess below for more on this subject.
You can count it as one of your breaks today.
PRACTICE OF THE MONTH
Step back – enough to get perspective, fresh air, and your sense of humor in case you misplaced it.  The more flexible, the more creative.  Give yourself a break – alone or with others.  But not just once a week or a month, but daily – maybe several times a day.
Track your productivity and mood for a week when you don’t ever stop and compare it to a week when you do.
Don’t make someone else have to send you on a Time Out.
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GREAT WAYS TO PRACTICE
The next  Embodied Abundance tele-course begins March 31st (last one until fall).  It’s all about living in flow – that’s timing at its best.  And there’s no commute time. It doesn’t get easier than this.
Just for Alpha Women (us over-achievers who are too good at what we do), I’m starting a coaching group – all done by teleconference – on March 16th.
You know who you are.  Check it out.
For all women who are ready to deeply nourish their soul so they are revitalized with a greater sense of ease and purpose, do consider the Women’s Retreat to the Sacred Isle of Iona in
Scotland this May.  It’s heaven! Just a few spaces left.
2-minute AUDIO RECESS
Embodied Abundance
CLICK to listen
Tell me topics you’d like me to address.
Contact Victoria
In case you haven’t been getting these weekly,
you can visit the Audio Recess Library anytime.
TO PONDER AND AMUSE
“The greatest danger in times of turbulence is not the turbulence; it is to act with yesterday’s logic.”                                             ~Peter Drucker
Enjoy this misbehaving paint program.  Great way to let go of the illusion of control and keep your sense of humor.
“In a gentle way you can shake up the world.”                                        ~ one of Cesar Chavez’s favorite quotes  from Gandhi
WAYS TO PLAY
AT THE TOP OF YOUR GAME
Free Centering Practice Audio
Free Audio – Centering Practice lead by
Victoria Castle  (please excuse technical difficulties, a new one is coming soon!)
Trance of Scarcity Group Study Guide
The Trance of Scarcity Free Group Study Guide
is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution Agreement – which permits use for non-commercial purposes with no alterations.
Hot Women for a Cool PlanetHot Women for a Cool Planet – We are global citizens who choose to unite our wisdom and care in service of our shared future.   Join women from 19 countries,    take the Hot Woman Pledge.
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And find out how much life your are actually living!
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WHY RECESS MATTERS

School kids do it, Congress does it, even plants during winter snows do it.  (If you know the tune, please sing along.)  Fact is, taking recess is an occurrence in both the natural and the human-made world.  It is us adult bi-ped’s who are not very reliable for knowing when to take one.

Every week I send out an Audio Recess for the sake of you taking a break right in the midst of all the demands in your life.  I trust you’ve figured out how to listen to it and still look terribly busy.  Because as we all know… if we’re busy, we’re productive.

Oh contraire!  If we’re chronically busy, it’s likely we are operating not at peak performance but more at “numb speed”.  That’s my term for “head down, pushing through, and taking self way too seriously”.  I’m hoping it will find its way into the general lexicon.

Who has time for recess!  Atheletes, artists, musicians, builders, writers, leaders, cooks, teachers, physicians, coaches, farmers, creators – they all know the role of taking a break, giving something time to come to form, letting things rest, getting perspective, clearing their heads or resting their bodies.

We’re hyped up and melting down.  The source of most disease is stress (yep, there’s plenty of science to support that).  So the game is not go faster and manage your time better – by cramming more in,  but to manage your energy.

Taking a recess (even a 2-minute one) gives us a chance to hit the reset button – interrupt the overdrive and downshift into the best gear for the grade we’re traveling on.

Albert Einstein, when working on solving a problem, would take a break and go play the piano.  He was known to often exclaim “I found it” while at the keyboard – away from working the problem.

When we take a break, we are releasing ourselves from the limits of our habitual thinking and seeing, and plugging in to the All-ness of the Is-ness of the Now-ness of the Whole-ness a.k.a. a greater intelligence than just us.  And we can still take all the credit.

Since your second grade teacher isn’t around to announce Recess, it’s up to you.  What power you have.

The highest performing atheletes (the Winter Olympics are happening right now in Vancouver, BC) are masters at tuning into themselves before their capacity diminishes and restoring themselves so they can perform at their best.  Recess is a part of their greatness.  Ours too.

Listen to the Audio Recess below for more on this subject.
You can count it as one of your breaks today.

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PRACTICE OF THE MONTH

Step back – enough to get perspective, fresh air, and your sense of humor in case you misplaced it.  The more flexible, the more creative.  Give yourself a break – alone or with others.  But not just once a week or a month, but daily – maybe several times a day.

Track your productivity and mood for a week when you don’t ever stop and compare it to a week when you do.

Don’t make someone else have to send you on a Time Out.

**********************

GREAT WAYS TO PRACTICE

The next  Embodied Abundance tele-course begins March 31st (last one until fall).  It’s all about living in flow – that’s timing at its best.  And there’s no commute time. It doesn’t get easier than this.

Just for Alpha Women (us over-achievers who are too good at what we do), I’m starting a coaching group – all done by teleconference – on March 16th. You know who you are.  Check it out.

For all women who are ready to deeply nourish their soul so they are revitalized with a greater sense of ease and purpose, do consider the Women’s Retreat to the Sacred Isle of Iona in Scotland this May.  It’s heaven! Just a few spaces left.

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2-Minute AUDIO RECESS

Tell me topics you’d like me to address.
Contact Victoria@NecessaryMischief.com
In case you haven’t been getting these weekly,
you can visit the Audio Recess Library anytime.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Written and edited by Victoria Castle. © 2010 all rights reserved.
If this newsletter was forwarded to you, make sure you receive your monthly copy by signing up directly.  It only takes a moment.  We never share our mailing list with anyone.
CHEERFUL DISCLAIMER:  Participating in Necessary Mischief has been known to induce greater ease, connection, and effectiveness – even joy!   Don’t say you weren’t warned.

January 2010 Newsletter: The Slippery Art of Timing

Necessary Mischief Newsletter
JANUARY 2010

The Slippery Art of TIMING


Embodied Abundance Timing is a frighteningly powerful feat, producing everything from divine to disastrous results.  And it’s critical to almost everything we do:  merging in traffic, passing the ball, asking for a raise, cooking a meal, closing the deal, catching a plane or Ark, delivering the punch line, winning the Gold, even popping the question.
Masters of timing seem to fall into 2 main categories: (1) animals who move instinctively, and (2) we humans who have to practice, practice, practice.  It’s about more than justwhen, it’s also about how much.
Like Goldilocks, we have to learn what’s too much and what’s too little and what’s just right.  But wait, is it about being lucky enough to be in the right place at the right time or about meticulously planning every detail? Dare I ask, do we actually have any control or is it all just done with mirrors?

One thing’s for sure, there’s a big difference between Timing and Time.  Time, as in chronological time (from the Greekkhronos), is about “sequence or order of occurrence”. It offers endless opportunities to stay in line, hurry up, wait, worry, do it quick, and feel behind schedule.

machine cogs

Timing lives in a parallel universe: Kairos time which means “the right or opportune moment”. It can appear to be effortless, when actually it’s the artful application of effort (not too much, not too little).
Take the timing chain in a car, it synchronizes the sparking of the plugs with the movement of the pistons so that together they produce power.  Without it, all those parts would be moving but no power would be created.  Much like us when we rush around trying too hard and ultimately produce exhaustion rather than fruitful results.
We gain mastery in the art of timing by (drum roll, please) being present.  And we do that by dropping deeper into the moment and let our senses inform us.  With practice, we find the sweet spot.  Listen to that engine purr.

PRACTICE OF THE MONTH


Create rituals in your life as a way of jumping off the hamster wheel and fully entering the moment you are in.  Rituals differ greatly from habits, because they bring us more present and conscious rather than operating mechanically by rote.
It can be as simple as lighting a candle in gratitude, getting up from your desk every hour to go breathe fresh air (be sure to unlock the chain around your leg so you don’t trip), greeting your dear ones with full eye contact, or blessing the drivers on the road with you. It’s not the length of time, it’s the depth.
Anything that interrupts the habitual is necessary mischief.  It’s a way to reclaim and refocus your energy.  As the poet Hafiz says“Leave the familiar for a while…..make a new water-mark on your excitement and love.”

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GREAT WAYS TO PRACTICE

There’s still time to join the Embodied Abundance telecourse which starts Jan 20th.  It’s all about living in flow – that’s timing at its best.  And there’s no commute time.

The Resilience Workshop on Feb 6th is for anyone who wants to be at their best under pressure.  Gee, I wonder who has pressure in their lives.

How would you like to Be an Offer They Can’t Refuse? A new tele-coaching group begins Feb 3rd for people who want to fire up their effectiveness and contribution.

And all the other good offers in the right column are just waiting to be taken advantage of, so please consider how they can serve your purposes.  Click any of the links for full details.


WARNING:  participating in any of these may induce greater       ease, connection, and effectiveness.  And fun!

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MORE NEWS

In honor of making the most of time,
I am adding 2 new features.

RSS for the monthly newsletter
subscribe at top right or on the website.

And

Every couple weeks, I’ll be sending out an
Audio Message that will be S*H*O*R*T Embodied Abundance
(always under 2 minutes)
because I know how
precious your time is!
Use them like your personal
Refresh button.
You can listen with just 1 click and get right on with your day.
And they’ll be easy to forward on to others
if you think they’re worth it.

I’ve included it here so you can check it out, I’d love your feedback.  And tell me topics you’d like me to address.  Contact Victoria


TO PONDER AND AMUSE


We’re fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance.”
~Japanese Proverb

Watch this short commercial for a charming way to show a product’s virtues.   ooo la la

“The most revolutionary act one can commit is to be publicly happy.” ~Patch Adams, M.D.


Watch this 2 minute video of the very talented actress Amy Walker (from Whidbey Island!) demonstrating flexibility!

“Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes.  Art is know which ones to keep.” ~Scott Adams

WAYS TO PLAY
AT THE TOP OF YOUR GAME



Free Centering Practice Audio
Free Audio – Centering Practice lead by
Victoria Castle  (please excuse technical difficulties, a new one is coming soon!)


Trance of Scarcity Group Study Guide
The Trance of Scarcity
Free Group Study Guide
is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution Agreement – which permits use for non-commercial purposes with no alterations.

Hot Women for a Cool PlanetHot Women for a Cool Planet – We are global citizens who choose to unite our wisdom and care in service of our shared future.   Join women from 19 countries,    take the Hot Woman Pledge.

Take the Vitality Survey
Take the Vitality Survey
And find out how much life your are actually living!
Practices of Resilience
Listen to Victoria’s playful interviewwith Jennifer Louden in the Comfort Café.

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RESILIENCE WORKSHOP
Sat, Feb 6th
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MAY 2010

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I partner with people who are not willing to settle for a shrunken life.  Quite the opposite, they want to make their greatest contribution right in the midst of all this anxiety and chaos.

The focus of our work together is cultivating their capacity to achieve great things whileenriching their aliveness, fulfillment, connection, and joy.

If that’s you,
Contact Victoria

Alpha Women

And if you’re an over-responsible, over-committed, over-achieving woman who’s ready for more sanity and pleasure in your life, check out ALPHA WOMEN.

Coaching with someone who intimately knows this terrain and has accessed freedom might be just the thing to help you reclaim your juicy life.

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About our Masthead

What does a picture of the Grand Tetons have to do with Necessary Mischief?

Well, they represent ferocious aliveness, they’re inspiring, beautiful, challenging, and their geological formation was a variation of the norm.  They kind of erupted.  Who knew mountains could play
outside the box?